A Gift in the Wreckage and True Healing with Lorraine Kane & Manon on The Healers Café

see everything around, but I wasn’t connected to the body in the car. You know, I had already it was like I was a soul. I was in my true form. And I proceeded to go up and I and God spoke to me and said, Don’t look back. So I looked up, and we were flying. It was like we were flying through this different dimension of space almost, and we stopped. And we no longer communicated with our words. We were communicating in our spirits. There weren’t words. And it was time for my life review, and I wasn’t even sure what that was. I didn’t have fear. What I felt was the most unconditional love that you could ever know here on Earth. If we experience that kind of love, I’m sure we would completely combust. It was just and there was no judgment. It wasn’t this, this God in the sky that was going to point his finger and condemn me, and you know, as he started to show me things in my life, it was like I had missed the mark. There were two paths I could have gone. This way, I chose a different way, but there was no judgment. It was just I knew I had missed the mark and the sorrow and it was I’m so sorry, and the unconditional love I was met with was just, I love you. I love you. And then we, after that was over, we proceeded to go on, and I think I was being taken deeper into the next into heaven or the the next place. But we stopped again, and out from the side of this beautiful, bright light came a photograph of myself with my two daughters and my ex husband, who was my husband then, and the voice, actually, God gave me a choice, and this was really fascinating, because he said, Are you tired? Do you want to come home, or do you want to continue? And I never realized that we got that we were given choice, and I thought of my children, and I just realized that my time on earth wasn’t quite done. There was still work to do. So I said I didn’t think I was ready. And again, the UN. Additional love that I was met with as we descended. And just before I came back into the car, into my body, I heard God tell me, don’t let go of my hand. I’m holding your hand. And when I popped back into my body, I remember feeling a very painful feeling in my eyes, and I was back in my body, this body, and there were people all around, and they were still rescuing me. The roof was off, the air ambulance came in. They took me off to a trauma center where I had, over the next couple of years I had, proceeded to have, I’ve had over 6060, surgeries, to be exact, and 31 years. It’s been 31 years, and the last surgery was three years ago. So, gee, yeah, it’s ongoing.

Manon Bolliger  10:56

Wow. What a story. My God.

Lorraine Kane  11:00

I know God is good, though I’m telling you, through all of that, I believe the strength was given to me, the grace was given to me, going through such a catastrophic, horrific experience, and we don’t have time today, I could tell you about my insurance company going bankrupt. There was so many problems. But through it all, there were so many gifts, and God helped me to you know, when everything’s taken from you, when you have nothing left to fight for, you’re broken nothing. God steps in in such a powerful way. And I think of that poem, footprints. You know when, when I look back and you see the one set of footprints, because it was hard. And there were times I cried and said, where are you? How come you’re not helping me through this, but when I look back on the other side of it, I see that it was then that God carried me.

Manon Bolliger  12:09

Oh yeah, well, you know, especially with the background you had, right, which, you know, I mean, there’s so much, I would say, I’ll just call it corruption. But, you know, corruption of the real truth of of God, you know, in so many religions and and, you know, it’s not about spirituality. I really mean the organized religions to instill such fear in people, you know, so that their perception is all of the things you shared right. And then when you actually experience it, you realize that it’s, it’s not like that at all. It’s it’s pure. And you know,

Lorraine Kane  13:05

absolutely, I the biggest thing for me, in my experience, there’s a few, but one of them was, there is no fear in dying

Manon Bolliger  13:21

 mmhm

Lorraine Kane  13:22

When we die, it’s simply like we close our eyes and when we open them again, we’re there. We’re and there is home. We go home, we go back to where we came from. I believe that we are spiritual beings having a human experience here on Earth. It’s not that we’re human beings who get to experience God on occasion, right? We are spirit beings. God is available to us all, and all we have to do is just ask, just reach out, allow and and for healing for so many things. You know, today, I run a Wellness Center, and I see God all the time in people’s lives, just as they surrender, yeah, and allow the healing comes, right?

Manon Bolliger  14:23

Yeah, yeah. I mean, I think that’s the essence of it, completely right, without all the stories, and that’s part of what you we have to let go, is all the stories, you know? Isn’t that the truth and the fear you know that I think, yeah, we’re on the verge of discovering a lot of that. You know, how many things we’ve been told that are not true? You know about about our world and how things really work? And you know, if you look at the Vatican and these rappers. Representatives of so called religion and Catholicism. And, you know, I think it’s going to be a shock to people to realize how controlled they’ve been by such like, it’s like a day and night. It’s not even, we’re not even talking about the same thing. But what’s interesting is that many people haven’t something a little incline, that there’s, there’s something more, there’s something real, you know, but until you’re actually in your situation, you don’t meet it necessarily, right? And you don’t, you don’t get the the pleasure. I mean, it’s hard to call your situation pleasurable, but you know,

Lorraine Kane  15:50

a gift,

Manon Bolliger  15:50

the gift exactly,

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Manon Bolliger  17:01

of of knowing that with certitude, you know, because we’re always looking for something real. But in healing, I think I can see that from when I was in practice, you know, like those 30 years, it is at the surrender point that a lot of this becomes clearer to people you know, that they understand that they have everything already to be able to do what needs to be done.

Lorraine Kane  17:33

And I think that the thing too, is that we hold on to what we know and what we’ve been taught, but it’s only when we lay those things down, yeah, and we allow that we start to see transformation when we hold on to those stories and it’s not working. If those things aren’t working, I completely would implore people, just, you know, to allow to let it go. Just let go and ask. Take God’s hand, and as you understand, God, don’t get caught up in all of those stories you’re talking about. Let God be real to you and your life and meet you where you are in your life. That’s what I what I truly and God, there is no fear and judgment and that, that scary, harsh God, off in the sky, doesn’t exist. I did not meet that God, what I met in my experience was unconditional love and peace and an assurity that I am so loved and I matter so much to God Almighty. It was just a beautiful, beautiful experience to to experience that, you know,

Manon Bolliger  19:05

yeah, yeah, and that’s, yeah, it’s funny. I’m gonna just share. It’s just because I believe that there are no coincidences. You know, things happen exactly as they they do. And I had a very interesting experience this past retreat I went to. And are you familiar with five? Meo, DMT, no, you know that is okay. Well, so it is a substance. They call it the god molecule, because it actually is within us naturally, but they it’s used a lot for people with, well, all kinds of conditions and disorders and mental stuff, and also just curious people like me that. I just want to know, you know, yeah, if this is what is like it, what it does is it allows what’s within you, inside of you, to be shown clearly, but without all the cognitive, you know, judgment based stuff. And I think people have from the experience and what I’ve seen, they feel like they’ve they they’ve seen God now, and it’s like anyway, my personal experience with it, which, you know, I didn’t know what it was going to be like. And I I’m very open to things. I don’t do things many times, but I like to, especially if it’s safe and well done and all that. I feel like there’s so much if we can open up our perspective, and I learned by opening up my perspective, or I would have never ended up having the type of practice I had, right? So anyway, this is very fresh for me, but it was a sense of just incredible gratitude, love, joy, bliss, almost. But the feeling is that we are. We are one. There’s, there really is no separation and and when you’re describing like the hand, it’s like that, it’s that that’s that certainty of absolute love, that you know you’re you’re taken care of, and then there’s choice, which I thought was really incredible with your story, because, and I’ve seen that other people have shared that, you know, they have a choice, and it’s like we are souls, and that’s became very clear in this And you come to earth to do your journey, and you choose, you know like, okay, no, it’s good enough. Now, off I go. Let me go back to my to my essence, or you continue the journey. Now here, you don’t have a choice. You’re not going to die, so you come back. I just want to make that clear, in case people are afraid it’s not a near death experience. It’s a oh my gosh, life is so unbelievable experience. But it’s used for, you know, people with addictive problems, with PTSD, with brain trauma, with like, you know, very interesting, and I can see it as different, but also, yeah, it can be, I can see it complimentary to some of the much more hands on work I do through Bowen therapy, right? And was it

Lorraine Kane  22:52

transformative for you? I’m curious, when you had that experience after, for me, it

Manon Bolliger  22:58

was, I’ve done a lot of work, you know, because I’m, I’m a real go getter for, you know, exploring and not, I mean, be willing to uncover every stone, right? And, you know, see what’s underneath. And I just know there’s so much more that we don’t know. So I’ve so my curiosity, that’s how it is, right? It’ll go, it’ll bring me into interesting places, some good, some less good. But the more intuitive I am, the better the experiences truly are, you know. So, and I would say 99% are well chosen and good so, you know. But your question was, my the insight, I think it was like a reassurance for me. Oh, it was a reassurance that the world really is this, this way, like the way that I had started to really allow myself to feel, you know, now, I wasn’t brought up religiously, but, you know, we did the right thing, whatever that was,

Lorraine Kane  24:11

according to someone,

Manon Bolliger  24:14

yeah, but, um, but I never was, you know? Yeah, I and that. So I wasn’t dragged up with fear, as they say. But I, my, my partner, who’s was Irish, Catholic, certainly, you know, he did the whole thing, the fear that you know, of the devil within him. I mean, it’s like, incredible, right? And anyway, so he was there too, and all that lifted. And it was just such a beautiful, interesting experience. Anyway, so it just, I felt like sharing that with you because, not because I was near death, but, you know, I think we are coming to a time. Time period where it’s really important to understand that we truly are souls having you know, it’s interesting

Lorraine Kane  25:09

after the accident, this is, this is very interesting. So from the from the time God told me not to let go of his hand, he was still holding my hand. And when I was down in the States for a couple of weeks while I had some surgery, then they airlifted me back to Canada. When I got to Canada, I was almost dead. They called my family back in and said, Oh, it was a terrible journey home. I was way too weak. I shouldn’t have been moved. They called my family together, and I remember God speaking to me like you and I are talking right now. I can remember one particular night I woke up, I was in my hospital bed, and I heard the most beautiful music, and I it woke me up. And when I woke up, the entire room was filled with angels. Angelic beings brought I saw brilliant, bright light, and the music was coming out of the light. And those experiences, for the first, I would say, month, I was in between two worlds, so I was able to communicate with both sides, which was interesting. And as I went through surgery and I started to heal. It was like I was losing that ability to connect the same way. And then years, you know, years of surgery and recovery and healing, and then a few and I was also very clear that I was now a spiritual being I had when I came back. I was a whole different person with a whole different understanding about who God is, what the purpose is, and I think we’re here to love and experience. I think it’s all about raising our vibration, our frequency, to connect to our divine creator and to have those experiences here on earth that grow us that. And it’s not about getting it right. That doesn’t matter. It’s not about that at all. It’s not about those, those huge polarities that society feeds us right and wrong and good and bad, and we have it so wrong. It truly is just about opening ourselves up, getting to know our divine creator, and saying yes and allowing and when we do that, it’s there that we find the magic. It’s there that we start to be led and shown things that we My mind has been blown so many times in the discoveries of God’s grace in my life, and just how we can have that relationship here and now. It’s not what we have been told it was. It’s just so different. It’s so inviting, yeah,

Manon Bolliger  28:41

interesting. It really is.

Lorraine Kane  28:43

And now I do Reiki. I’m I branched away from the fundamental church after my accident and after my healing. And now I run a Wellness Center in Ontario where we do Reiki and reflexology, a lot of natural modalities of healing, because I really believe that our bodies are designed to heal themselves. We don’t need to put medication in it. We don’t need to do the things again that we’re told to do. It’s about longevity. It’s about your quality of life. And again, the body heals naturally. So tapping into things like Bowen and things like Reiki and reflexology red light, all of those beautiful things we have today that allow our bodies to live in an optimal state.

Manon Bolliger  29:44

Yeah, I mean, that’s, that’s fundamentally the philosophy of Bowen too, right? It’s like it, you know, you do little patternings on the body, and the body just knows how to put itself back together again. And. It’s very powerful. But, and I would add in this, you know, you may or may not agree with this, because I certainly didn’t believe this 35 years ago. I thought, well, we have everything. I also now feel that where our environment is has been damaged sufficiently that we may be missing things in our food because it’s so toxic, and we may need some assistance in helping to detox and stuff. So I’m, you know, I’m, I’m now aware that, you know, and it may be just having a good, you know, truly organic garden, you know, that may help it, you know. But not everyone can do that. So I think, but it’s healing. Is simple. And what the body needs, if it has the right substrate, is, is simple, you know, we don’t it’s intuitive.

Lorraine Kane  31:02

That’s the operative word there. It’s intuitive, and we need to have that intuition. If we tap into that intuition, then we’re on our way,

Manon Bolliger  31:13

and we can test everything muscle we know if it fits or it doesn’t fit, you know? So, yeah, we actually have a lot of powers that I think we’re, you know, we haven’t allowed ourselves to fully see.

Lorraine Kane  31:29

So true. So true. Yeah, a lot of people will say, too, I get a lot of messages from people asking about my experience, and often they’ve lost loved ones and and they’re grieving terribly, and they want to know what it’s like. What is it like over there? And I don’t want to be there if I can’t be with my loved ones. And what struck me is I used to feel that way too, but when I came up out of my body in the car, and I looked down, I saw things in a whole different way. I wasn’t connected to the body in the car anymore, right, right? It was like I knew that wasn’t me. That was just a suit that I wore here in this dimension, but it wasn’t meant to be worshiped. And the way I perceive, the way I was perceiving it, I had, that’s what I had gotten wrong, and that we’re really soul beings, and we’re back to your point of oneness. I think we are just all one. When we cross, it’s just love, pure love, all togetherness and we I honestly, I look forward to the day when I go back my daughters now are 34 and 30 no 30 almost 35 and 32 and I do have a third daughter, so that’s another blessing and another gift. But I I’m grateful that I came back for sure, life has been so interesting, and I’m so filled with gratitude that I got to experience God’s grace in my life, and I continue, on a daily basis to experience and I’m so filled with gratitude for that

Manon Bolliger  33:34

great Well, I think our our time is up. And could you bring your book a little closer to them. Absolutely people can see it. Oh, perfect. A gift in the wreckage, learning gift in the wreckage, and you can get it on Amazon and things like that. Yeah, okay.

Lorraine Kane  33:54

Well, it was a pleasure being with you. Thank you so much for getting together and chatting.

Manon Bolliger  34:01

Yeah, like likewise. So thank you.

Lorraine Kane  34:03

Okay, take care.

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